What’s the best belief you can have? The venue is my living room.
I have 2 questions for you.
How do you act and feel when you are in a venue? Are you happy? Are you sad? Relaxed? Nervous? Anxious? Be honest and go deep down. How do you act and feel really?
Most guys, if they are honest with themselves, will tell me they are nervous. They are anxious. Even the guys who act the most confident are feeling this way most of the time.
You want to get rid of this feeling.
2nd question. How do you act and feel when you are in your living room? Are you happy? Are you sad? Relaxed? Nervous? Anxious? Be honest and go deep down. How do you act and feel really?
Most guys will tell me they feel relaxed. They feel good. They are comfortable. They are at home. I repeat “They are at home.”
This is the mentality you want when you are in a venue. In fact, this the feeling you want everywhere you are. Feel relaxed in your body and your environment and you will kill it with your social interactions. Why? Because women are attracted to men who are alpha. Men who are the boss. You are the boss of your home right? I hope so. Take that mentality and look at the entire venue as your living room. Walk up to women and be friendly as if you were a host and they were guests at your kick-ass party.
As a side note. This is why throwing a party or get-together at your place is also the easiest place to meet and attract women. It literally is your home, therefore you are the default alpha male in that situation.
If you don’t feel this way. Work on it. Here are some quick tips on how to do so:
- Go to the venue during the day. You will see it for what it is. Just walls and a floor. Not a big deal.
- Stop watching the news. Why? The news is constantly covering the very few stories of murder and violence in the world. For every violent attack on someone, there is 1,000,000 loving acts toward someone. When you stop watching television, you will see that the world is a safer and friendlier place than you once were hypnotized to believe.
- Know and believe that the world is a friendly place. How? Talk to more people. The gas station attendant. The doorman. The gardener. Everyone all the time. You will soon see that people are nice. This will translate into results for you when you are out.
To summarize: Show up to the club with no shoes and your favorite cheeto stained T-shirt.