Yes, the dreaded friend zone. We’ve all experienced the frustration that is friend zone. We all hate it. So.. why are you in the friend zone? My friend… it’s because…..
You are a pussy.
Yo!! Stay with me! Believe me, I have been friend-zoned HARD before. It may be hard to hear, but it’s the absolute truth. You didn’t make the move! You thought that by just playing it cool and giving her lots of space that somehow she would just see how awesome you are and fall madly in love. Well, as kickass as you actually may be, sometimes the girl won’t budge. That job is yours.
When you talk to her, it has no sexual tension. There is no flirting. No teasing. No leading. These are all CRUCIAL in becoming more than friends. And let me tell you, if you are afraid of doing so because she might reject you, it’s a hell of a lot better to make the move and make your intentions known!! She will respect you for it and know that you are the guy that dates girls like her. Take it or leave it.
Really. It all comes down to just being honest and making no apologies for who you are.
Now I would also like to say that having friends that are girls is a good thing! In fact, about half of my friends are women. More on this topic later..