What is failure? Well, in regards to approaching women. I’ll tell you what you’re definition of failure is and what your definition should be.
Sit down, this may take a minute.
Your definition of failure is talking to a girl and having her turn you down. “I have a boyfriend, I don’t know you, etc.” whatever. That gut-wrenching disappointment. That is your definition. Tell me I’m wrong.
Ok, here is what your definition should be. Failure is inaction. Failure is not moving when your gut says move. Failure is not taking the shot. That is failure. You know that feeling you get when you don’t approach and start making excuses? That’s failure. That feeling that I get when I don’t have the balls as a man to take the shot, that’s my feeling of failure.
“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.”
So, the core philosophy. Be true to yourself. Do what you want. Follow your heart. Sure it may sound cliché but I don’t give a shit. Do it. My life is amazing. You know why? I live by this mantra. When I feel like playing music, I do so. When I feel like going for a jog, I go. When I see a cute girl, I say hello. You want it. Start going for it.
When I approach a girl, no matter what the outcome, I feel awesome. I get an incredible high. Try it. I promise it will change your life for the better.